Hi Buzzies,

My name is Katlego and I am 25 years old. I have been living with my boyfriend Thabang since I was 21 years old. My parents died when I was young and I have been moving from relative to relative until I met Thabang and he asked that I move in with him. But after all these years I have realised we are very different people, we have different values, and I hate living with him. He has helped me get a job and save money. I don’t want to seem ungrateful. Please help.

Buzzies Answer

Buzzie 1: You are very ungrateful. You are those people who after they get help, see greener pastures and leave.

Buzzie2: You’re seeing that after four years? Go, he will find someone better.

Buzzie 3: Hi Katlego, Have you and Thabang considered getting a few days away from each other? Sometimes spending too much time with a person, might get tempers heated. Maybe you can also sit down and discuss some of the things you don’t like. You might find that he is also unhappy about a few of your own habits. Communication is very important n every relationship. Then you can make drastic decisions. Also, you did not say anything about whether you still love him on not. Think carefully before you decide and communicate.

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